Dating a woman out of my league
If you are going to get major-league girls, you need to understand this: the decision you made in high school about what league of woman you were in is totally out of date now. Are you the same guy you were when you were a pimply-faced teenager? So why should you be stuck with the same league of women that you were then? Here's what to do: Most guys who date women who they aren't attracted to decided on their "look" at about the same time they decided they could never have a major-league babe.
They set their style in stone, and haven't upgraded their "look" since then.
Do things that are fun, and that involve other people.
If you go to bars, learn pool, darts, and other bar games so you can play those games with girls. Get involved in your life in activities that are fun and that put you around other people. An important part of going for the women you want is want.
If you got a hot girl (by sheer chance, mostly), then you decided you were in the "hot chick" league, and that is what you went for, what you expected, and what you got from then on.According to NYMag.com, a recent study in the journal suggests that many couples get together despite not having an instant physical attraction to each other.For the experiment, researchers filmed a variety of couples—everyone from the "married for years" down to the "dating for weeks"—then had people watch the tapes and judge the attractiveness of each person.Now, late to the party as I may be, I have to say that this does bring up the ever-popular topic of whether it’s possible to date someone who is “out of your league”.After all, many of us know someone who punches above his or her weight class, dating people who they – by all rights – should have based on the flawed idea that the only thing that people value is looks.