My boyfriend goes on dating websites
Confronted him and he snapped saying he wasn't ready for a realationship.. About 6 months into it I found he opened a separate FB page and was friends with other girls he met on POF.well as his ex girlfriends. We'be been living together for a year now so if a girl says yes let's meet up ... Since I made my post I found out he was talking to a girl for about a month that he met in Badoo and he lied to me and said he was going to "play ball" and ended up going to hook up w/her. This is the first time I'm talking about this amd nobody knows in my environmemt because I'd feel ashamed open up about it. and if i bring it to light, I feel i have to be ready to call it all off.. It feels surreal, I cannot comprehend how he can act normal taking me to family dinners go shopping and asking out other girls on badoo and registering on sites like toyboy warehouse.I (as my fake profile) actually even sent him a note today that I was interested in him.I don't like playing games, and now that I have cooled off I am itching to say something to him. You are in an awkward spot because you know this doesn't end nicely. You have just been told secretly he is a BF and a quiet pig. You have to choose whether you are going to live with that fact. Calm yourself down as much as you can before you confront him about it so that you don't get too angry or upset. It may have been a thoughtless mistake that escalated into something else. His search history said "free singles in my area"...
Things can get so horrible if he is a SA and you stay with him without him being in treatment. Mary I've been with my bf for almost 3 years.met on POF.came to find out we had mutual friends.
Iyou can do better, marrying a guy or having children with someone you will say I trust. Less than a year after that, I caught him with a POF profile, and a few other "hook up" websites as well as ad's posted on Craigslist for sexual encounters.
We broke up for about 3 months, saw each other occasionally and one day he came back saying he loved me and he did want us to be together, I gave it another chance.
I'm in a two year relationship now and this is the first time anything like this happening to me.
But my point is, ignoring the issue will only make it worse. After a period, due to this ignorance, he may get the courage to bring this cheating out of the cyber world into real world. I think it is a GREAT idea to post your photo with the exact same profile as he has done on POF and see how he responds. Eventually one day I took out my photo album where there were many pictures of old boyfriends and casually flipped through it. If he comes off all defensive and accuses you of invading his privacy, you will know what kind if man you have on your hands - one who is not fully appreciative of you. You are the first prize, not the consolation prize. It's bringing me down and making me feel like there is something wrong with me, makes me feel super insecure.